How to Ask Your Past Employer for a Recommendation Letter
Obtaining a recommendation letter from a past employer can
be a lengthy process that begins long before you end your time as their
employee. There are several tasks you must complete before quitting a
job in order to expect the employer to write you a recommendation
letter.
Be a Great Employee
A recommendation letter is a reflection of the work you did while
you were an employee, and most employers will only write a
recommendation letter for quality employees. If you show up to work on
time, get along well with colleagues, solve issues with a mature
attitude and show a willingness to learn, your employer will most likely
write you a recommendation letter. If the opposite is true, you should
consider asking someone else for that letter of recommendation.
Give Proper Notice Before You Quit
Even if you were a model employee, you absolutely must give at
least 2 weeks' notice before you leave a position. Many places would
appreciate a more lengthy notice, but 2 weeks is the bare minimum.
Giving notice before you leave a position shows your employer that you
value the position and that you understand it will take them at least 2
weeks to find someone to replace you. If you leave without giving
notice, you will put your employer in a situation where they have to
scramble to fill your position. In short, giving notice that you will be
quitting your job will help your employer remember you in a positive
light.
Have a Follow-Up Meeting
If it has been over a month since you left your last position, set
up a meeting with your former employer to discuss your time at the
company. Gauge their opinion of you by asking questions about your
strenghts and weaknesses. If there was any tension when you left your
position, this is the time to clear the air. That being said, this is
not the time to defend yourself for poor decisions you may have made in
the past, but instead it is the time to get a better understanding of
how you were viewed in the company. Ask your former supervisor if he or
she would feel comfortable writing you a recommendation letter. If your
former supervisor makes it clear that he or she does not have high
opinions of your work, consider asking someone else at the company to
write the letter.
Send a Thank-You Card
After asking your former employer for a letter of recommendation,
send a thank-you card or letter expressing your gratitude. It can be
time-consuming to write a recommendation letter, so your old boss should
understand you appreciate the hard work. You will likely be asking for
more letters in the future, so failing to send a thank-you letter could
negatively impact your future.